{"id":3924,"date":"2018-02-19T13:57:18","date_gmt":"2018-02-19T13:57:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/courtney-potter.com\/20155sara-daniel-snipes-farm-retreat-wedding\/"},"modified":"2018-05-27T04:54:52","modified_gmt":"2018-05-27T04:54:52","slug":"unconventional-wedding-sara-daniel-snipes-farm-retreat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/courtney-potter.com\/unconventional-wedding-sara-daniel-snipes-farm-retreat\/","title":{"rendered":"Unconventional Wedding | Sara + Daniel’s Snipes Farm Retreat Celebration | LGBTQ Wedding Photographer"},"content":{"rendered":"
Sara + Daniel tied the knot on May 2, 2015 at Snipes Farm Retreat<\/a>\u00a0in Chapel Hill, NC.\u00a0This creative couple planned an unconventional wedding stripped of imposed wedding traditions\u2013<\/strong>proving that your wedding can be infused with imagination.<\/p>\n Sara and Daniel wanted their day to be a celebration of a world that is more free, just, joyful, loving, and beautiful. And their wedding certainly did not miss the mark.<\/p>\n Read the Q&A below to learn more about Sara + Daniel\u2019s inspiration for their unconventional wedding celebration.<\/span><\/p>\n This event is an amazing resource\u2014not only if you\u2019re LGBTQ\u2014but also if you\u2019re a hetero couple looking for LGBTQ-friendly vendors who share your values.<\/span><\/p>\n Everyone is welcome at this event\u2014gay, hetero, single, curious\u2014and there\u2019ll be all types of vendors, from photographers like myself, to catering, music, and everything in between. Admission is free,\u00a0<\/span>click here for more info and to RSVP.<\/a><\/strong> I hope to see you there!<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n We met at Connecticut College when I was a freshman and Daniel was a sophomore.<\/p>\n We first interacted at a film showing against the war in Iraq that Daniel presented with the campus leftist group he started. I had seen Daniel around campus (who could miss his ridiculous mohawk?), but Daniel apparently got smitten with me after I made \u201ca biting criticism of US foreign policy\u201d (His words, not mine. I think he just thought I was cute).<\/p>\n After a couple of goofy missteps we connected, exchanged mix tapes, and started a fun, passionate relationship. We got a chance to spend a summer together in Mexico during different internships, and we bonded over delicious food and revolutionary politics.<\/p>\n Over the last eleven years we have lived together in Mexico, DC, and North Carolina, and we spent years apart while I worked\/studied in Guatemala, Ecuador, and Philadelphia. Neither of us can pinpoint the moment when we realized that we are going to be life partners. In some ways I think we both always knew<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It was very important for us that each element of our unconventional wedding day felt authentic to our relationship, heritage, and values. We are two folks that like to question authority and the status quo, so it makes sense that we tried to spin wedding traditions into something that felt representative of us.<\/p>\n We chose to officiate our own wedding because both of us are atheists, but we wanted to make sure that some of our closest friends and family members could contribute to the ceremony.<\/p>\n Our close friends are in a puppet troupe, the Mysterious Rabbit Puppet Army<\/a>, and they offered to write and perform a puppet show for us our wedding. The puppeteers knew that I am obsessed with my cats, so they made them the narrators of this sweet anarcho-feminist puppet show. It was amazing!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Both of us agreed that our favorite part of the wedding day was dancing the final dance while a huge group of our friends encircled us. Our DJ, Alex DB<\/a>, played \u201cMaps\u201d by Yeah Yeah Yeahs, which was on the first mixed CD I gave to Daniel. Daniel and I both cried our eyes out while our friends hugged us. It was really moving.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n We wanted someone who would seem comfortable with some of our nontraditional choices. You were more than game and were very validating of our choices. You also seemed relaxed and confident.<\/p>\n I was really not looking forward to the engagement shoot. I was very nervous because I don\u2019t really enjoy getting my picture taken, but you made me feel at ease. Your directions helped me focus on Daniel and our relationship, rather than whether I looked good enough.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n We want to re-experience our unconventional wedding through your amazing photos!<\/p>\n It’s been almost difficult going back to our normal routine considering we had such a wonderful unconventional wedding day! This fall we’re traveling to Vietnam and Laos. We’re excited to go on an adventure together.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Be playful! Many traditional wedding elements conflict with our radical feminist sensibilities. We kept the traditions we liked, and we re-imagined or tossed the traditions we did not like.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sara and Daniel, thank you so much for allowing me to be a part of your day. There are times when photographing events feels like heavy labor, but this felt like child’s play- and I owe that to the environment of playfulness and imagination that you created. It was truly one of the most enjoyable celebrations I have ever witnessed. Thank you!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Sara + Daniel tied the knot on May 2, 2015 at Snipes Farm Retreat\u00a0in Chapel Hill, NC.\u00a0This creative couple planned an unconventional wedding stripped of imposed wedding traditions\u2013proving that your wedding can be infused with imagination. From a self-officiated ceremony to an anarcho-feminist puppet show,\u00a0their unconventional wedding reflected this couple\u2019s authenticity. Sara and Daniel wanted […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":13530,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[810,814,371,811],"tags":[394,358,836,838,837,99,190,719,720,718,412],"class_list":["post-3924","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-couples","category-lgbtq","category-qa","category-weddings","tag-chapel-hill-wedding","tag-food-trucks","tag-lgbtq","tag-lgbtq-wedding-photographer","tag-lgbtqwedding","tag-north-carolina-weddings","tag-outdoor-wedding","tag-outdoor-wedding-venues","tag-puppet-show","tag-snipes-farm-retreat","tag-snipes-farm-retreat-wedding"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\nFrom a self-officiated ceremony to an anarcho-feminist puppet show,\u00a0their unconventional wedding reflected this couple\u2019s authenticity.<\/h3>\n
Are you planning your own unconventional wedding? Come check out the Raleigh LGBTQ Wedding Expo on February 25<\/a>.<\/h3>\n
1. How did you meet and fall in love? I’d love to hear a little bit more of your story. \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/h3>\n
2. You incorporated some really unique elements into your unconventional wedding day (Before you, I had never photographed a puppet show at a wedding!) Tell me about some of these personal touches and the inspiration behind it.<\/strong><\/h3>\n
3. What was your favorite part of your unconventional wedding day?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
4. What factors other than photos went into your decision on a unconventional wedding photographer? Why did you pick me?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
5. Your photography package included an engagement session. What was it like to work with me during this? Did it make the wedding day easier in terms of nerves about photography or what to expect from our collaboration?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
6. What is the first thing you want to do with the images from your unconventional wedding?\u00a0<\/strong><\/h3>\n
7. What is next for you as a couple? Any big plans?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
8. Now that you are seasoned wedding planners, what advice do you have for other couples planning an unconventional wedding? \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/h3>\n
A shout-out to all our fab vendors for making this day possible:<\/h1>\n
Wedding Planner: RedBird Events<\/a><\/h3>\n
Photography Assistant: Katy Folk<\/a><\/h3>\n
Puppet Show: Mysterious Rabbit Puppet Army<\/a><\/h3>\n
Bride’s Dress: BHLDN<\/a><\/h3>\n
Shoes: Swedish Hasbeens<\/a><\/h3>\n
Groom’s Clothing: Ted Baker<\/a><\/h3>\n
Florist: Teacup Floral<\/a><\/h3>\n
Ice Cream: The Parlour<\/a><\/h3>\n
Cake: Wants and Kneads<\/a><\/h3>\n
Catering: Kokyu<\/a><\/h3>\n
Invites: Daniel Meltzer, printed by CatPrint<\/a><\/h3>\n
DJ: Alex DB<\/a><\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"